If ONLY you could have a moment read and to watch our stories
If only the millions resharing the Coronation Street news, could share our videos of our true life stories of loss, and we admire Kym Marsh & Simon so much for reliving her nightmare.
You never go into a pregnancy and expect to lose your baby Especially after 12 weeks.
After 12 weeks you celebrate that milestone, but the reality is that many like me have carried home their baby's in memory boxes.
- Imagine giving birth and being told you just had a spontaneous abortion when you never did at all!! That it was God's...
- You are given NO birth certificate or death certificate and no support whats so ever! You GET a voice mail from the doctor who failed to send your urine sample away to check what water infection you had, which caused you to pprom in the first place! Had he done this right, your baby should have been here, you should never have become an angel mother & father....
- We live in the 21st century and we still calling late baby losses, late miscarriages!
- What kind of World do we live in when everyone knows our mums are giving birth to babies and no one knows the pain unless they been in your shoes.
- You give birth to the most precious gift ever, but you never hear your baby cry, you can hear the next mum and dad's baby next door, wow it has some lungs!!! BUT there is a dead silence in your room, and you are literally petrified because you know all along something was not right but because of what stage you are at no one listens, they leave you to deal with it ALONE and they do not explain what to expect, NOT once, YOU then that bloody petrified of holding your baby straight away because the midwife did not pass your baby to you, you simply never forgive yourself and you lost that moment...
- then WOW you discover you have to deliver YOUR placenta!! God why did we not know this, why the hell can we not talk to mums about birth before 28 weeks when so many are having premature births.....
- although in some cases our mums and dads have to listen to their babies until there is silence because of the gestation being shy of 24weeks, can you just image how that feels?
- You then sit years later wondering how they be if they were alive today, comparing family loved ones, saying to yourself if only I was not the 1 in 4.
- It is even harder when you know full well you should have never pprom in the first instance, YET no one wants to improve this side of things, which makes me so angry, because if we do not learn from these mistakes, if we do NOT do something about it, then more will follow in our footsteps, who really did NOT need too.
- Any time soon we will be getting our Charity number, we know we have a lot of work to do, but if my heartache can save just one more babies life then that is the most amazing gift ever
- Miss my precious Sinead so much, my daughter grew inside me, kicked inside me, she was my everything....Feel free to comment on Sinead photo in my profile photo file, she is beautiful, she is not scary or horrible to look at, she was every inch of me and looks so like Siobhan in ways.
- and then MAYBE you will donate towards
- Little Heartbeats - Making PPROM Awareness
- https://www.gofundme.com/ppromawareness
- and IF ONLY you will follow our Facebook and social media accounts
Then Maybe we will be able to gain change. Just then we may be able to prevent baby loss
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But thank You for reading, let's hope one day my prayers are answered in memory of Sinead..
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